4 Pieces of Advice We're Guilty of Giving But Not Following


Admit it, you've given a piece of advice to someone that you haven't really been following. Here's a couple of the "talks" I haven't "walked". Get it? (please tell me you get it)

Don't care about what they think
"Guess what darling, haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate but you just got to shake it off" Is something we all say....in other ways. But we have to admit that we tend to DO care. Sometimes to the point where we stop ourselves from showing our true colors. I think the best way to beat this is to make an ACTIVE decision to do things that is "us" and to slowly shift our focus from what others think to what you think.

Don't judge a book with its cover
Sometimes our judgments our right, most times their wrong. I think there is no way we can completely stop judging people because the act of judging someone based on their looks happens in an instant but what we do with that impression is whats going to matter. We can minimize the bad effects by choosing to disregard our initial judgement and try to get to know the person.

Move on
Whether its for someone going thru a break up, a failure in a test, or a best friend turned enemy, the line "Just move on" has been the piece of advice we ultimately give. However, actually moving on is difficult and we are selves are probably "stuck" as well. And of course its going to be a long battle but its a battle worth fighting. Every single day needs to be a day to defeat the temptation of just grieving even though not everyday will result to a victory.

NEVER touch your pimples
BET YOU DIDN'T SEE THAT ONE COMING. HAHAH but seriously, we all need to stop picking on our pimples. I know its satisfying to do but we need to quit our addiction. We're just adding more bacteria to the pimple and you probably know that that ain't good. (But my excuse for picking on my pimples is that I need to "examine" if its shrunk our not.... for like 1000 times in front of the mirror.)

Whats your
excuse for touching 
your pimples?


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  1. That last one cracked me up so much, hahaha! I agree with EVERYTHING, Bea, and like you, I just need to examine my pimples so go away while I touch them... Haha, have a lovely weekend!

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  2. I never popped a pimple, seriously. No lie :))) But yes yes yes I agree with everything so much!! I think it makes sense that we talk the talk but not always walk the walk since that's what being human is like. It's just so difficult to instill these changes unless you get used to it. Prolly if you hang out with people like that, it'll rub off onto you as well. At least, that's the only easy way I know someone can change. : / About that pimple... maybe if I stare at it long enough in the mirror, it'll get conscious and go away? =))))

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  3. Absolutely agree with all four of these! The fourth one was hilarious haha. I just can't help pop my pimples sometimes even when I know how bad it is.

    Giving each other advice but never following your own is a never ending cycle! One of my friends and I are always giving each other support and advice, but when it comes down to it, we never follow what we preach. I get frustrated with her sometimes when she doesn't follow her own advice, but I know I'm the exact same way!

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  5. Hahahah I totally agree with this.
    This was funny to read.


  6. Definitely agree that we all do these things and say we shouldn't. Cute post!
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  7. Love this! I am guilty of all of them :( Especially the last one, haha. My excuse is that I need to check if they shrinked a bit or not and things like that. I just can't stop this bad habit!

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  8. Never touch your pimples! I'm so guilty about this! Hahahaha. Whenever I have one I just have to prick it :(

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  9. You're so right, especially about the pimples haha! Love your blog, keep up the good work :)

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  10. So true! When I read the heading- immediately all of the boy advice I give my friends to get over their exes comes rushing to mind lol
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  11. haha what a great post and so true! Thanks for sharing!


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  13. Nice blog dear and interesting article!



  14. I can definitely relate to this post, I'm guilty of all of them but especially the one about pimples! My excuse is that they look ready to pop anyway, so I may as well help them along... I'm terrible haha xx


  15. guilty of the pimples part, hahaha!! :D

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  16. Guilty of a lot, but these are such good things to keep in mind and think of, love this post
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  17. haha I can totally relate... it's hard to follow your own advice sometimes

  18. Never touch your pimples for the win!!! Hahaha. This should be on my #1 spot!


  19. Great article. I completely agree.

  20. This happens to me a lot, I always give these advice to people because I think they're really good, but when it comes to me it is always hard to follow them!


  21. I so agree with you! I guess it is human nature to care what other people think because we want approval; we want to belong. It is also human nature to judge people because we want to feel better about ourselves. And it is so hard to ignore a pimple simply because it hurts and it is annoying. :)

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  22. Great post!!!!

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  23. This post definitely hit home for me, Bea ! I'm basically guilty with every example that you used, haha !
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